From The Back to Health Podcast with Dr. Tanya Westerbeek. Listen to the full episode above.
I had braces as a teenager. I got exactly the result I wanted. Then I stopped wearing the retainer.
Nothing happened. That's the important part. Nothing happened for a long time. One tooth drifted a fraction. Then another. No single day looked like a decision. And at 47, I found myself starting the whole process over.
Nobody quits in a dramatic moment
I think about this constantly with patients, because the pattern is identical. Someone comes in barely able to turn their head. We work. They get better. They feel great. And then the appointments get harder to justify — not because they decided care doesn't matter, but because the reason they started stopped hurting.
There is no moment where a patient decides to quit. There is a Tuesday that's busy, then a week that gets away from them, then a month, and then a phone call eighteen months later that starts with “it's back.”
Feeling better is not the same as being done
Pain is a terrible progress meter. It's the last symptom to show up and the first to leave. The joint that was restricted for two years does not become resilient in the three weeks it takes to stop hurting.
With teeth, we all understand this. Nobody argues that the retainer is a scam because the teeth are already straight. We accept that the correction and the maintenance are two different jobs. Spines get judged by a different and much less forgiving standard.
What actually keeps results
- A frequency you'll genuinely keep, not the ideal one you'll abandon in six weeks.
- Something you do at home — two or three movements, most days. Boring beats brilliant.
- A trigger to come back before the crisis: a change of season, a big training block, the first hint of the old pattern.
- Honesty with your provider about what fits your actual life. A plan you skip is worse than a smaller plan you follow.
Starting over is allowed
I could be embarrassed about redoing this at 47. I'm not, particularly. The alternative was staying annoyed about it for another twenty years. Restarting is not evidence that the first round failed — it's just what maintenance looks like when you skipped some.
If you were a patient once and drifted, you have not blown it. Come back. We'll figure out where you actually are, not where your chart says you were.
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